Empathetic.
I can see where you're coming from. I don't like it when posters boast of humiliating JWs at the door with snarky put-downs and whatever. But sometimes the JWs call at the most inconvenient time. Or we've just had a bad experience with a JW family member which makes our blood boil. Or we reflect back on times when we had a good social life, or lots of business, and due to leaving the JWs, even being only inactive, we've lost all those "friends". Or we DO try to say something to make them think, and they come back with some braindead reply.
So sometimes the JWs at the door get the brunt of our frustrations. It may not be fair, but they called at our door, not the other way round.